


{"id":5725,"date":"2017-12-07T07:00:39","date_gmt":"2017-12-07T07:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/?p=5725"},"modified":"2024-07-26T22:36:15","modified_gmt":"2024-07-26T21:36:15","slug":"moving-young-ones-five-ways-ease-transition-keep-sanity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/moving-young-ones-five-ways-ease-transition-keep-sanity","title":{"rendered":"Moving with young ones: Five ways to ease the transition and keep your sanity!"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Moving is one of the most <a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthstatus.com\/health_blog\/depression-stress-anxiety\/top-5-stressful-situations\/\">stressful<\/a> events in life, right up there with the death of a loved one and divorce. For children ages 2 to 6, it\u2019s as if their entire world is being disrupted. The good news is that this age group is very resilient and adapts quickly. Here are five strategies that will help your little one embrace their new \u201cworld\u201d with open arms.<\/h2>\n<h5><strong>1) It all begins with your attitude<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>When parents are stressed and upset, their parenting suffers. Your positive attitude goes a long way in transforming fear and anxiety into excitement. As the founder of Gold Parent Coaching says, &#8220;Your kids look to you for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.parents.com\/parenting\/money\/buy-a-house\/make-moving-easier-on-you-and-your-kids\/\">cues<\/a>, so if you&#8217;re positive, they&#8217;ll have a sense that everything will be okay.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h5><strong><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-5735 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/teddy1.jpeg\" alt=\"teddy\" width=\"398\" height=\"316\" \/>2) Involve your child with the move<\/strong>.<\/h5>\n<p><strong>Read<\/strong> books about moving with your child to help them understand the process. A winner for this age group is <em>The Berenstain Bears\u2019 Moving Day<\/em> by Stan and Jan Berenstain.<\/p>\n<p>When it\u2019s time to start packing, ask your child to help you pack up her room. Not only will this help her feel included, but she\u2019ll be comforted seeing that all her beloved treasures are going to your new house. Let her \u201clabel\u201d her boxes and put them with the things to unpack first. Better yet, let her decorate her boxes with crayons, stickers, etc. Not only will this help your movers easily identify where these boxes go, but it will keep her busy so you can attend to one of the other 457 things on your moving checklist!<\/p>\n<p>Have your child accompany you to look at new houses. Including them in this way builds excitement and greatly reduces the fear and anxiety of the unknown. If they can\u2019t join you, take photos to share with them later. Once you\u2019ve chosen <em>the<\/em> home, let your child visit before moving day and take a tour of the new neighborhood and anything in the area that they\u2019d like. Ice cream, anyone?<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Have a look<a href=\"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/moving-overseas-with-a-family\/\"> here <\/a>to read a first-hand experience from one of our teachers about moving with a family.<\/h4>\n<h5><strong>3) Make your child\u2019s well-being your priority.<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Take plenty of breaks from packing to spend time with your child. After the move, try to take some time off from work to help your child settle into his new home. Some other things to consider include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>On moving day, set up his room <a href=\"https:\/\/www.babycenter.com\/toddler\/behavior\/how-can-i-make-moving-to-a-new-house-easier-on-my-toddler_12461\">first <\/a>so he will be surrounded by familiar things. If you do this, he\u2019ll have a sanctuary to go to if he feels overwhelmed.<\/li>\n<li>Stick to your old routines; if your bedtime routine has always been a story and a kiss before bed, continue this tradition in your new house.<\/li>\n<li>If your child expresses anxiety about leaving friends, come up with ways they can stay in touch. If possible, plan a trip back to the old hometown to visit.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h5><\/h5>\n<h5><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-5736\" src=\"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/kid-soft-toy1.jpg\" alt=\"kid soft toy\" width=\"371\" height=\"261\" \/>4) Acknowledge your child\u2019s feelings.<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Instead of judging or downplaying what your child tells you, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/health\/archive\/2011\/10\/12-ways-to-mess-up-your-kids\/246806\/\">acknowledge<\/a> what she\u2019s saying. For example, if your child says she is scared to go to her new school, rather than telling her there\u2019s nothing to be scared of or that she\u2019s being silly, acknowledge her feelings and say something like, \u201cI know you&#8217;re scared, but I&#8217;m going to come with you. We&#8217;ll meet your new teachers and your classmates together, and I&#8217;ll stay with you until you&#8217;re not scared anymore.\u201d Help your child work through the feelings rather than downplay or deny them.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/a-new-start-moving-to-thailand-with-a-family\/\">Click here<\/a> to read another teacher&#8217;s story about moving to Thailand with a family.<\/h4>\n<h5><strong>5) Transition to the new school in steps<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Sometimes a few extra steps can be the perfect recipe for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.redfin.com\/blog\/moving-during-the-school-year\/\">helping your child transition<\/a> more easily to their new school:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ask your child\u2019s former teacher or caregiver to jot down some notes for the new teacher\/caregiver<strong>.<\/strong><\/li>\n<li>Make sure your child \u201csays goodbye\u201d to their old daycare or school. You might even want to bring special treats for your child to hand out on his last day.<\/li>\n<li>Visit the new daycare or school facilities with your child before the first day. Meet the new teacher and say hello to the children.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>At times, you\u2019ll feel like your sanity is being challenged. But by looking for ways to help your child feel more comfortable with the move, you might even help yourself. With the strategies above, you\u2019ve got this. Pretty soon you\u2019ll be moved and settled into your new life and everything will fall into place. Leaving the stress of moving a distant memory.<\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Moving is one of the most stressful events in life, right up there with the death of a loved one and divorce. For children ages 2 to 6, it\u2019s as if their entire world is being disrupted. The good news is that this age group is very resilient and adapts quickly. Here are five strategies&#8230;  <a class=\"excerpt-read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/moving-young-ones-five-ways-ease-transition-keep-sanity\" title=\"Read Moving with young ones: Five ways to ease the transition and keep your sanity!\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":139,"featured_media":9622,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":""},"categories":[895],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-elias-de-carvalho-1131877.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5Krhd-1ul","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5725"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/139"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5725"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5725\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15316,"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5725\/revisions\/15316"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9622"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5725"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5725"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.teacherhorizons.com\/advice\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5725"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}